Book Review: How We Learn to Be Brave: Decisive Moments in Life and … by Bishop Mariann Budde
The moment I first heard Bishop Mariann Budde speak on January 21, 2025, I found myself captivated. Her words during that high-tension moment were not only courageous but delivered with an elegance that left a profound impact. As someone who typically steers clear of the self-help and inspirational genre, I felt a magnetic pull toward her book, How We Learn to Be Brave: Decisive Moments in Life and …. I’m thrilled to say it was a decision I don’t regret.
Bishop Budde’s work tackles the concept of bravery at pivotal moments—not just as grand gestures but as everyday decisions that shape our lives. She breaks down the idea that bravery often requires a call to action; sometimes, it’s about standing firm and making deliberate choices. I loved this refreshing perspective! The author illuminates how the tiniest of decisions can be just as significant as life-altering ones, allowing even those hesitant about bold moves to see the value in their own choices.
Her writing flows smoothly, punctuated by anecdotal storytelling that feels personal rather than preachy. I appreciated her blend of scripture and references from popular culture, like Harry Potter and The Lord of the Rings. It’s as if she whispers, “You’re not alone in this journey; even fictional heroes face decisive moments.” This relatability made her insights feel approachable for someone like me, who isn’t typically drawn to faith-centered texts.
One of the thoughtful highlights was when Budde candidly shared some of her own regrettable decisions alongside her successes. This honesty adds depth to her narrative, making her messages resonate even more profoundly. I found myself nodding in agreement when she challenged the notion of "White Christianity," affirming the inclusive message that often gets overshadowed by rigid interpretations of doctrine. Her assertion that “White Christianity, in both its historical and present contexts, is an anathema to the message of Jesus” struck me as both brave and desperately needed in a time when inclusivity is often hard-won.
The pacing of the book is steady, allowing readers to reflect on each chapter while offering practical insights and reminders that seemingly simple decisions can hold monumental weight. Budde reminds us that “when we decide to start toward something that requires courage, we are often creating new possibilities for those who come after us.” This sentiment lingered with me long after I turned the last page.
In conclusion, I may not be a regular reader of inspirational nonfiction, but I find How We Learn to Be Brave significant, especially for those seeking wisdom through life’s challenges. This book is perfect for anyone wanting to explore different facets of bravery, and it painted Bishop Budde not only as a beacon of hope but also as a grounding force in turbulent times.
For those who, like me, find themselves skeptical of the genre: if Budde’s voice resonates, give it a chance. You might end up surprised, reflecting on your own decisive moments, just as I did. I give this earnest, illuminating book 4 stars, and I can only wish for more leaders like her—may their tribe increase.
Remember, as Budde so eloquently states, we should “refrain from the culture of critique,” replacing negativity with constructive suggestions. That’s a lesson worth carrying into our everyday lives.
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